The Manifestation of Losses - 64:14
O you who believe, your wives and children may be your enemies. So beware of them. But if you forgive and are tolerant and forgiving, surely Allah is Forgiving, Merciful.
The believers are forgiving:
Explained in Detail/41:34
Good and evil are not the same. You respond in the best way. Then the one between whom you were enemies may become your best friend.
وَلَا تَسْتَوِي الْحَسَنَةُ وَلَا السَّيِّئَةُۜ اِدْفَعْ بِالَّت۪ي هِيَ اَحْسَنُ فَاِذَا الَّذ۪ي بَيْنَكَ وَبَيْنَهُ عَدَاوَةٌ كَاَنَّهُ وَلِيٌّ حَم۪يمٌ
Explained in Detail/41:35
Only the resilient will reach this state. Only those who are fortunate are brought to this state.
وَمَا يُلَقّٰيهَٓا اِلَّا الَّذ۪ينَ صَبَرُواۚ وَمَا يُلَقّٰيهَٓا اِلَّا ذُوحَظٍّ عَظ۪يمٍ
The Thunder/13:22
And those who persevere patiently and persevere only to win the approval of their Lord, and observe the prayer, and spend out of what We have provided for them in secret and in open charity, and repel evil with good. They are the ones who deserve the final destination.
وَالَّذ۪ينَ صَبَرُوا ابْتِغَٓاءَ وَجْهِ رَبِّهِمْ وَاَقَامُوا الصَّلٰوةَ وَاَنْفَقُوا مِمَّا رَزَقْنَاهُمْ سِراًّ وَعَلَانِيَةً وَيَدْرَؤُ۫نَ بِالْحَسَنَةِ السَّيِّئَةَ اُو۬لٰٓئِكَ لَهُمْ عُقْبَى الدَّارِۙ
The Criterion/25:63
The servants of the Most Merciful are such that they walk in the earth without ostentation. And when the ignorant insult them, they offer peace.
وَعِبَادُ الرَّحْمٰنِ الَّذ۪ينَ يَمْشُونَ عَلَى الْاَرْضِ هَوْناً وَاِذَا خَاطَبَهُمُ الْجَاهِلُونَ قَالُوا سَلَاماً
Council/42:40
The recompense for evil is a like evil, but whoever forgives and acts righteously will be rewarded by Allah. He does not love the wrongdoers.
وَجَزٰٓؤُ۬ا سَيِّئَةٍ سَيِّئَةٌ مِثْلُهَاۚ فَمَنْ عَفَا وَاَصْلَحَ فَاَجْرُهُ عَلَى اللّٰهِۜ اِنَّهُ لَا يُحِبُّ الظَّالِم۪ينَ
Council/42:41
Those who stand up for their rights after being wronged will not be condemned nor punished.
وَلَمَنِ انْتَصَرَ بَعْدَ ظُلْمِه۪ فَاُو۬لٰٓئِكَ مَا عَلَيْهِمْ مِنْ سَب۪يلٍۜ
Council/42:42
But those who oppress the people and those who attack unjustly in the land should be opposed. For them is a painful torment.
اِنَّمَا السَّب۪يلُ عَلَى الَّذ۪ينَ يَظْلِمُونَ النَّاسَ وَيَبْغُونَ فِي الْاَرْضِ بِغَيْرِ الْحَقِّۜ اُو۬لٰٓئِكَ لَهُمْ عَذَابٌ اَل۪يمٌ
Council/42:43
To be patient and forgiving shows a firm character.
وَلَمَنْ صَبَرَ وَغَفَرَ اِنَّ ذٰلِكَ لَمِنْ عَزْمِ الْاُمُورِ۟
The Believers/23:96
Repay evil with good. We know well their claims.
اِدْفَعْ بِالَّت۪ي هِيَ اَحْسَنُ السَّيِّئَةَۜ نَحْنُ اَعْلَمُ بِمَا يَصِفُونَ
The Bee/16:126
If you are to retaliate, retaliate with the like of that which was given to you. If you are patient, surely this is better for those who are patient.
وَاِنْ عَاقَبْتُمْ فَعَاقِبُوا بِمِثْلِ مَا عُوقِبْتُمْ بِه۪ۜ وَلَئِنْ صَبَرْتُمْ لَهُوَ خَيْرٌ لِلصَّابِر۪ينَ
The Table Spread/5:45
There We commanded them: We commanded them: Life for life, eye for eye, nose for nose, ear for ear, tooth for tooth and wounds for wounds. Whoever gives up this right, He will cover his sins. Those who do not judge by what Allah has revealed are wrongdoers.
وَكَتَبْنَا عَلَيْهِمْ ف۪يهَٓا اَنَّ النَّفْسَ بِالنَّفْسِۙ وَالْعَيْنَ بِالْعَيْنِ وَالْاَنْفَ بِالْاَنْفِ وَالْاُذُنَ بِالْاُذُنِ وَالسِّنَّ بِالسِّنِّۙ وَالْجُرُوحَ قِصَاصٌۜ فَمَنْ تَصَدَّقَ بِه۪ فَهُوَ كَفَّارَةٌ لَهُۜ وَمَنْ لَمْ يَحْكُمْ بِمَٓا اَنْزَلَ اللّٰهُ فَاُو۬لٰٓئِكَ هُمُ الظَّالِمُونَ
The Heights/7:199
Be forgiving, preach tolerance and pay no heed to the ignorant.
خُذِ الْعَفْوَ وَأْمُرْ بِالْعُرْفِ وَاَعْرِضْ عَنِ الْجَاهِل۪ينَ